Time Heals

I think that one of the hardest things in life is to get over a breakup with your first love. Break ups are never easy, (unless you're the heartbreaker) and they don't get any easier as time goes on.


I know it's really cliché but I feel like the saying "time heals all wounds" is true. You might be going through a break up or have been trying to get over one for a while now. You've tried everything. You've tried deleting them off your facebook, twitter, phone, etc. You've tried throwing out all of the presents, letters, tickets, cards, and anything else that he's given you. Yet, you can't seem to get them out of your head. Maybe the problem is that you're not supposed to erase them from your mind. Maybe you're supposed to cherish the memories and keep them locked away in a special part of your heart. In time, those feelings will fade. In time, the memories won't haunt you. In time, you'll forget. The worst mistake someone could make is to move on so quickly after breaking up. Another relationship will not cause the hurt to lessen. And if it does, then it's illusory. It's also not fair to him. How can you even try to start a relationship with someone when you know for a fact that your heart is unavailable. How can he give you his all, when you're so guarded? It's just not fair to him or to you. Give yourself time to heal. Give yourself time to breathe and just live. You don't need to be in a relationship to be happy. Remember, single does not necessarily mean available.